Mar
11
Written by
cfz
I live in a 2 floor apartment. I live on the top floor and the lady and her 2-3 kids live on the bottom floor. Constantly loud noises coming from there. Slamming the door at all hours, constant traffic in and out of teenagers, always cars in me and my bfs spots, etc....Recently she has started to flick on and off her spotlight nonstop when we come home and walk up the stairs quietly. She is constantly saying things to our guest when they come into the house like "BE QUIET PLEASE!" in a nasty tone. She is absolutely nuts and I want a way to get her back without threatening her or anything. We have tried setting off car alarms and letting them go off, putting two 120 watt floodlights off his deck pointing near her bedroom, etc. I am about ready to call the cops everytime she does it because I consider it harassment. Any suggestions on how to make this stop. We have contacted the landlord and they have supposedly spoken to her but nothing stops her. Please help with suggestions. Im open for anything!I had a neighbor like that once. He used to leave notes all over our car under the windshield wipers and stand outside our door at night telling everyone that he worked for home land security and is protecting the condo community.
So one day, I was leaving for Greece with my family and he was standing by our car screaming about how we should be careful and that he knows we are committing treason and that he was alerting the federal government.
So a month later we came home and our condo had been ransacked-- by him of course. Then we called the cops and had the house fingerprinted and stuff and had the proof needed to prosecute and put him away for three months and have him removed from the condo association.
My advice to you is to get the police involved. Read up on common laws and start making anonymous complaints. The police will get tired of coming to the house and start cracking down on curfew and noise ordinances. If you've spoken with the landlord and nothing has worked - chances are nothing will work. Check with the landlord to see if another apartment is available. It's part of apartment living...god ur funny well for me that would be easy...u live upstairs rit? they live under u so go get ur high heels out get ur man a pair too and start walking.. jump up and down even wen u wake up in the middle of the nit KEEP them by the bed wear them to the bathroom.if ur boy friend watches sports tell him to keep a broom stick next to him wen his team make a strike touch down bang the broom stick on the floor from joy... now they will come up stairs talk nice be nice like u are not guilty of nothing... then try to resolve ur promble.. good luckIf you've already talked to a landlord, and she hasn't been better -- either the landlord was too scared to confront her and never did OR they did and she's chosen to just keep being this way.
For people like this, if she's as bad as you say, she's not likely to stop no matter what you do, and even what you've said you've done -- was she worse after that? I'd figure she would be...then it becomes a game of who can out-do what the other just did...that's dangerous territory!
In these situations, it's best not to retaliate, try talking to her rationally, see if that works, play to her sympathies if you can -- yes, manipulation is sometimes necessary, not fair, but to your benefit! See if you can convince her that you and your bf are good people who want to get along, and that you just wanted to take some time to meet her and see if you guys could work things out.
If that didn't work, I'd still say retaliation is just opening Pandora's box and a terrible idea -- I'd do my best to not start anything and plan to move. Again, not fair, but do you wanna fight this battle for a year or two before finally one of you move or do you wanna keep your own peace and just leave a bad situation? You have to forget about right and wrong at that point and do what's gonna give you a peaceful and happy life!
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